Main reason i came here was to share this. My friend just sent it to me on facebook. I don't know where she got it from. This is for the ladies. Enjoy.
In a brief conversation, a man asked a woman he was pursuing the question... "What kind of man are you looking for?" She sat quietly for a moment before looking him in the eye and asking. "Do you really want to know?" Reluctantly, he said, "Yes." She began to expound... As a woman in this day and age, I am in a position to ask a man what he can do for me that I can't do for myself. I pay my own bills. I take care of my household without the help of any man. I am in the position to ask, "What can you bring to the table?" The man looked at her. Clearly he thought that she was referring to money. She quickly corrected his thought and stated, " I am not referring to money. I need something more." I need a man who is striving for perfection in every aspect of life." He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, and asked her to explain. She said, " I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection mentally because I need conversation and mental stimulation. I don't need a simple-minded man. " I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection spiritually because I don't need to be unequally yoked... believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster. I need a man who is striving for perfection financially because I don't need a financial burden. I am looking for someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman , but strong enough to keep me grounded. I am looking for someone who I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him. I cannot be submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his business. I have no problem being submissive.. .he just has to be worthy. God made woman to be a helpmate for man. I can't help a man if he can't help himself . When she finished her spill, she looked at him. He sat there with a puzzled look on his face. He said, "You're asking a lot." She replied, " I'm worth a lot."
Ah! This phantom perfect guy that we all seek!
ReplyDeletevery interesting write-up, no doubt. But a question we fail to ask is - what faults of his are you willing to overlook, to make things happen/work with him on? Guess thats another blog post for another day.
Enjoy biochem. One of my top 5 worst classes in the world.
Glad you are getting on with your acada.
ReplyDeletehmm.....an interesting write-up... agree with ebukzi on that question.. but ladies...just be realistic about what you want & shine your eyes wellu wellu o!
nicely put. i tink it goes 4 both men and women but esp men shd have realized that things have changed alot!the secret is to keep it simple, that way u dont lose sight of the important
ReplyDeletei think the only chance of her finding that man is if she fits that list and more too...u cant ask all these from a man when ure not striving for perfection urself...so many women expect so much from men ..and fail to work on themselves whilst they wait for mr right to come along
ReplyDeleteWow! This is some hot stuff!
ReplyDeleteAnd I like it.. Putting it into perspective.