When you are young(er), you want the bad, exciting, happening guy, who dresses well, is at the club every weekend, has multiple chics and is all around bad for you . A little hint of danger gets you revved up and keeps you on your toes all the time cos you can't get too comfortable as you never know what could happen.
So why do (some) chics go for that kind of guy and forgo the "nice" guys? It all boils down to something called the stress response. With the bad guy, there's excitement, danger, stress, right? Your parasympathetic kicks in first (not the sympathetic-fight or flight as people think. Which is why when some people hear bad news for instance or are nervous they automatically have the runs, that's your parasympathetic at work). Anyway, the same parasympathetic system is also responsible for sexual excitement. So whenever you are with so called bad boy, you are sexually excited all the time, cos he's unpredictable and you know he's bad for you, so your parasympathetic is dominating.
This is the reason why a girl will say a guy is too NICE and she can't date him, because there's no excitement, he doesn't get your parasympathetic going. *wink, wink, wink* Well, nice guys i have good news for you. These chics want to date the bad guys when they are young but want to marry you once the craziness is out of their system. So keep hope alive and endure the friend zoning for now. As long as you end up with a good job/career, you will be set in the future ;)
Same goes for make-up sex. You have just being fighting, stress response ---> Parasympathetic ---> sexual excitement ----> Good sex (or not depending on the parties involved)
This also got me thinking about christian couples who date for years without having sex. I just imagine the guy (or girl) to be a goody, goody, no excitement, except when they are praying together. LOL. Parasympathetic permanently inactivated. J/K.
Seriously though, Megan Good and her husband who didn't have sex before getting married, only dated for 10 months. I think there's a reason why. Just saying.
I think it's so amazing how our brain controls a lot of things and we have no clue what's really going on. Sorry for the physiology lecture. If this was boring to you, it's okay, you will be alright.
U can also listen here
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The brain analysis part is appreciated madame sting..
ReplyDeleteNo wahala
DeletePlease what is that last picture?
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DeleteOK, I will not laugh.
Deletehahaha awwww baby voice :P
ReplyDeleteomg that last picture? he practically doesn't have a penis, its just a stump!
Hmmm I think some people exaggerate this no sex before marriage thing. I'm not having sex but I won't say I haven't seen it before neither hasn't he gotten hard in my presence before for some private reasons. Also, except a woman or man is not physically forced, if they decide not to have sex before marriage and after marriage it turns out that the man( or woman) cannot perform, they shouldn't blame it on not trying before marriage. Same way it didn't work out for them, is the same way it has worked out for others.
Lol sorry for the long comment, I'm having this same conversation at work with some muslim colleagues.
Beautiful!!! Only you will hear baby voice. What you are talking about is a whole nother topic. People who tried before marriage could end up with erectile dysfunction in the future. That's a different animal. There's viagra for that and if you are talking about not knowing how to actually have sex or be good in bed, well there are books and videos for that.
DeleteWhere did my long comment go to? Sigh!
ReplyDeleteI hope that micropenis belongs to a kid sha? I still can't see my long comment...info appreciated sha.
DeleteI don't think your comment posted at all, cos it didn't show in my inbox. Sorry, dear. That picture doesn't belong to a kid. Do you see the hairs on the thigh?
DeleteWhere are the comments from the conservative, Bible-thumping Christians? Well, since there are none, i guess i could get their argument started for them.
ReplyDeleteGod said all kinds of premarital sex/ lust are bad, and yes, that includes peeking at sexual organs for inspection purposes. There is no way you can peek- a-boo or hand inspect or whatever without lust taking over or sinning. It is against the Bible to see what your partner is working with before your wedding day. You will go to hell for that.
In the event that you discover on your wedding night that your partner has a micropenis, one scrotum, no scrotum, or nothing at all you can't file for divorce. It was God's plan for you to be with that person and bear that burden; thus, the two of you should pray together. Two will chase ten thousands.
I think a lot of christians have common sense these days or should i say I HOPE.
DeleteI REALLY wasn't expecting that micropenis picture at the end. OMG hahahaha
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ReplyDeleteSeriously, I'm only listening to the audio now. The penis looked so strange, is it a child, an adult, something else entirely?
DeleteI don't think little kids have that type of hair growing on their inner thighs....lol.
DeleteAwww man, miss one day from the internet and i missed the article that i was stalking for weeks! I am so glad you took the time out to post this thought provoking message. I am just so glad to know that this is just a phase and i can look forward to a badboy free future :) Thank you Madam Sting, stay well and good luck with your studies....Chinasing
ReplyDeleteThanks dear, Enjoy ur bad boy phase but don't let anyone treat you anyhow. That's never acceptable.
DeleteBrain, the human body, physiology are just amazing.
ReplyDeleteChai. the owner of that penis must be a miserable young man. he can't even indulge in that peeing past time of aim and shoot....just dribbling
This is true....on both the brain and penis statement. lol
DeleteMy eyes went O_O when i saw the last picture. Lmao @Ginger's dribble
ReplyDeletemy eyes uesd on the last picture*lol* nice blog babes
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DeleteInteresting Post, I agree with everything the author has said. Good boys aren't fun most of the time
ReplyDeleteAnd that's why when they are done with the bad boys and run to the good guys for marriage they get rejected.....
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